Saturday, May 9th, 2009

 Christine's life was suddenly changed when she was six years-old. No one could have predicted that her young mother would die of a brain tumor. As in the lives of many children facing grief, no one knew what to say or do. Christine was forced to live a different life that started with private grief. Over twenty-five years later, now in her thirties, Christine said, "Anytime that Mom came up…
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Saturday, October 11th, 2008

In May 2007, four university students, my daughter, and I went to India to make a positive difference in the lives of children. Our main assignment was to conduct a camp for children rescued from prostitution / human trafficking. I knew that our lives would be changed in profound ways through this experience, but I did not expect that I would fall in love with a land that is so different than anything…
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Saturday, October 11th, 2008

         WHO'S CHILD IS THIS (poem written in India, summer 2007)  Who's child is this with the burn-scarred face, of a different race, in this far off place.  Who's child is this, who comes up to me, with her childhood glee, says, "Will you love me?"  Who's child is this, who just wants to play, living life today, forgetting yesterday.  Who's child is this, I turned and shed a tear, it's…
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Thursday, October 9th, 2008

June 16, 2008Â This is the day that Charlie, Cole, and Tracy left their home in one place to go to their home in another place. Without knowing of whom I am speaking, the average person would assume that I am speaking of a family that moved from one house to another, but this is not the case. I am speaking…
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Thursday, October 9th, 2008

June 12, 2008 The last full day with the kids is over, and our house is full of many tears. During the day I had tears streaming down my face as I worked on a DVD for Charlie, Cole and Tracy. I looked through video tapes covering the last 18 months, and captured highlights of their lives: Charlie's 10th birthday, Cole's smile, Tracy's first steps and first birthday, etc. As I told my wife, our video tapes represent…
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